“ I guess I think happiness can come in a bunch of different forms, and maybe a marriage with tons of work makes people feel happy. But part of me still thinks… is it really so hard to make it work? What happened to being pals? I’m not complaining about Romance Being Dead— I’ve just described a happy marriage as based on talking about plants and a canceled Ray Romano show and drinking milkshakes: not exactly rose petals and gazing into each other’s eyes at the top of the Empire State Building or whatever. I’m pretty sure my parents have gazed into each other’s eyes maybe once, and that was so my mom could put eyedrops in my dad’s eyes. And I’m not saying that marriage should always be easy. But we seem to get so gloomily worked up about it these days. In the Shakespearean comedies, the wedding is at the end, and there isn’t much indication of what happily ever after will look like day to day. In real life, shouldn’t a wedding be an awesome party you throw with your great pal, in the presence of a bunch of your friends? A great day, for sure, but not the beginning and certainly not the end of your friendship with a person you can’t wait to talk about gardening with for the next forty years. ”
Mindy Kaling Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns)
I just finished reading her book and this is one (of many) passages that stuck with me. No, I’m not planning on getting married anytime soon, but it’s a nice thought to think that marriage can be fun and not such a downer. If you haven’t read this book yet, what are you doing with your life? Why are you even reading this post? Go out and buy it, now! Or, if you’re suffering from a lack of funds, I’ll mail you my copy.
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emorg said:
Loved this book, and this part. And let me just tell you, if you find the right person, marriage is incredibly fun and awesome and hilarious and like a permanent sleep over with your best friend.
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